What would be your reaction if your best friend revealed the following with you:
I am in a relationship with my childhood honey for seventeen drama-free years, I have recently found out that he lives a double existence. You would probably think that this knowledge might force me run from this marriage as fast as I possibly could, but I am still there. I must be mad!
What would you say to her? And what would YOU do if the person who made the above statement was in fact you? How would YOU react? And in case you haven’t guessed, I am that woman, with the impossible choice!It’s a question that has preoccupied me for some time now. If any woman had shared with me something like that, I would have told her that perhaps the time was right for her to end her marriage, especially since the children were now all grown up.I’d like to tell you what I mean. The “indiscretion” I am talking about doesn’t indicate the fact that my hubby cheated om me physically. He didn’t. Neither did he have a mistress. What I am talking about however is that one day I realized that he had engaged in live phone sex chat with another woman. And I discovered this quite by accident when our credit company called us to make sure that we had indeed sanctioned that purchase and I telephoned the company in question who told me everything .
And that is certainly the actual crux of the matter, which is really at the heart of my personal tribulations with this matter. It is not my husband actions which is unsettling me, but rather the actual conclusion that I am not too annoyed because of it. All things considered I adore my husband, honor him, have always been happy with him, however following the immediate surprise of the discovery, I decided not to spend too much time thinking about it. And no, I am really as alive in the sack as any other gal, therefore it just isn’t celibacy Which is making me so open minded. I truly don’t mind.
I have been thinking about that lately. Imagine that! My husband is intimate with another woman, and I am distressed for the reason that I don’t think it’s such a big deal! Yes, you’re right… There’s got to be something wrong with me!
Would it trouble you?
Whether mobile phone sex is actually infidelity can be another argument of course.